The repose of sleep refreshes only the body. It rarely sets the soul at rest. The repose of the night does not belong to us. It is not the possession of our being. Sleep opens within us an inn for phantoms. In the morning we must sweep out the shadows.
~Gaston Bachelard
So as promised after I posted my turnoffs, these are the things that I'm instantly attracted to and are my turnons.
Freshly Arched Eyebrows
I love to see a woman with fresh eyebrows. It brings out the eyes and overall face. On the contrary there is nothing worst than a woman with bushy eyebrows, looking like two caterpillars on her face.
Eyeglasses
I'm a sucker for intelligence and to me eyeglasses make a person look smarter (even though it may not be true). But at first glance a woman in a nice pair of frames that fits her face perfectly is a turnon.
Nice Teeth
When I talk to someone I tend to focus on their mouth, so pretty nice, white teeth are definitely a plus.
Nice Calf Muscles.
A woman with a nice pair of calves that are accentuated by the right pair of heels will definitely get a second look from me.I have more but I think that I'll stop there. lol.
So, what are some things that you are instantly attracted to?
Last night I had a dream that I was driving with my friend Ashley J. down this 4 lane highway (2 lanes in each direction). Each side was separated by trees. I was doing my usual speed of about 75-80mph. The weather was clear but out of nowhere I drive upon a lot standing water sitting on the highway. I didn't have time to brake so as soon as I hit the water my car started to hydroplane and spin out of control. I just knew that I was going to hit a tree. Amazingly, we came came like 3 feet from hitting a tree and the car stopped. Ashley and I just looked at each other in amazement before I proceeded to continue driving.
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Since I'm out of town I don't have access to my dream interpretation book. I did look some stuff up on net and this is what I found.
To dream that you are driving a vehicle, signifies your life's journey and your path in life. The dream is telling of how you are moving and navigating through life. If you are driving and cannot see the road ahead of you, then it indicates that you do not know where you are headed in life and what you really want to do with yourself. You are lacking direction and goals. Alternatively, driving a car in your dream, is analogous to your sex life and sexual performance. Consider how you are driving and what kind of car you are driving and how it relates to your waking sex life.
I subscribe to joebuddentv on youtube. Dude is actually pretty funny. This morning I catch this video below. Basically Budden is kind of upset because he is horny and his girl, Tahiry (if you don't know you better ask somebody) wont have sex with him.
Budden's argument is that if she is his significant other then it is her obligation to please him. If she doesn't then she can't get mad if he goes out the next day and fucks another chick (although he said he would never do that). She told dude he better go jerk off. rotf. He was on pussy punishment. I don't understand this either but that's for another blog topic. What say you? If you are in a committed relationship, is it your duty to make sure that your partner is pleased sexually? This question goes for men and women although I don't think many women have this problem compared to men.
Everyone has a list of things that they look for when observing the opposite sex. Said list might be something you would want them to have and it might be something that would make you run in the opposite direction you are not looking for. A couple of posts back I blogged about the fact that I don't like bad weaves. This is an example of something that I think is a big turnoff. Here are a couple of more things that I think are turnoffs.
~Summer time is quickly approaching and women are going to start having their feet on display. Please women, have your toe/foot/heel game on point. Pedicures are your friends. Get to know a pumice stone or something. Nothing is worse than a beautiful woman with jacked up feet. Whenever I see a good looking woman with hammertime it reminds me of Eddie Murphy in Boomerang.
~Another thing that bugs me is when women have chipped finger nail polish. Your hands are a part of your body that you look at all day, so why not make sure they look nice (people who know me may call me a hypocrite because I bite my nails). On a woman it just bugs me.
~Summer time is when a lot of black women get braids. I'm a fan of braids. I understand it costs y'all a lot to get them done and you sit in the hair salon or someone's kitchen for hours on end getting them put in. One thing I can't stand about them is when women can't let them go. New growth is not whats hot in the streets. I swear its not.
What are some things that are instant turnoffs to you when it comes to the opposite sex? What are some things that make you cringe and give you the the o_O face? My next post is going to be things that are instant turnons when it comes to the opposite sex.
ETA: This post was not made to offend anyone and if you are offended then good. Do something about it. lol.
I personally love black women. I've never been one of those black guys who has had fantasies of being with an "other". I love everything about black women. I love the many hues of a Black woman's skin--the reddish-brown cinnamons, the golden honeys, the milk chocolates and jet black coffees, no cream. I love the black woman's inner temperament--fragile and pretty like a china teacup one minute and hard and complex like a Chinese puzzle the next. Most of all I love Black women because Black women are the epitome of beauty, the giver of life, a steadfash protector and a nurturer.
With that said, white men love black women as well. Its nothing new. Even Thomas Jefferson had to sample Sally Hemings sweet nectar. This song is further proof. Shout out Azza for putting me onto this song. I actually find it kind of funny yet sad at the same time.
**I respect Lil Wayne for his rap skills. He is a pretty decent rapper compared to a lot of artists into today's game**
Now that I've gotten that out the way, I think that Lil Wayne is one of the most overrated rappers in the game right now. I don't think he could hold a candle to Phonte (of Little Brother), Naledge (of Kidz in the Hall), Drake and a whole plethora of other rappers. I know what your thinking to yourself. "Who the hell are these people?" I can even name some commercial rappers that can kill Wayne lyrically. Main one being Fabolous. Yes I said Fab kills Wayne. All day every day. Wayne has put out some garbage verses lately.
Wayne isn't all bad though. He has signed some artists that I can roll with (mainly Jae Millz and Drake [speculation]). Wayne and rest of Young Money (Jae Millz, Drake, Gudda and Mack Maine) released a video called 'Every Girl'. I don't know bout the hook to this one. I love sex just as much as the next person if not more. But there is no way I would want to have sex with every girl in the world. There are some creatures out there. o_O
Twice a year we all face the chore of rotating wardrobes. Fall and Winter clothes need to be moved to a place where they will not hinder access to one’s Spring and Summer wardrobe. With Spring come thoughts of warm weather, outdoor activities in the sunshine, and perhaps a new love interest.
For Spring I want to cop the new Nike Air Yeezy's. I'm a big sneaker fan and I haven't really been feeling a lot of sneakers that have dropped in the past couple of years. This is why everyone wants to rock retros. The only thing about the Yeezy's is the price tag. Its rumored to run around $215. The sneaker is suppose to be a non-profit shoe which means Kanye West will not be profiting from the sales. If he isn't then I wonder who is (Nike perhaps? o_O). Footlocker has confirmed the release date of the second colorway of the Yeezy as the 2nd of May. I haven't paid more than $170 for a pair of sneakers since my junior year of college when I copped these joints:
I want to cop both pairs of Yeezy's pictured above so that would run me about $430 (w/o taxes). That'sdefinitely not going to happen unless some people contribute to the 'Get Tunde some Yeezy's' Fund. All donations are tax deductible. lol
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